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I Learned To Forgive

by Sharon Merhalski
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He also taught me the truth of:

 Romans 12:18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.

I had to come to the realization that what "lieth in" me was planted there by my mother and nurtured and watered to grow a harvest according to the seeds she had planted.   If I plant thistle seeds in my garden this spring, and nurture them to their growth potential,  I will not grow a sweet smelling rose garden that I can enjoy in my later years...I will have a garden of thistles.  I had been trying to be the rose garden that my mother wanted: One which she continued in my adult years to cultivate as a garden of thistles by berating me and ‘slapping me down’, (as my brother put it so well), every time she drew me in and we started to develop a mother-daughter relationship. ~~Sharon]

What Is Forgiveness?

FORGIVENESS IS CHOOSING TO RELEASE THE OFFENDER.

[I want to emphasize Dr.Rosenberg’s use of the word "choosing".

Everything in our lives is a matter of our choice.  It is our choice whether or not we become a Christian.  It is our choice whether we ever surrender our wills to God.  It is  also our choice whether we ever say yes to the question Jesus asks:

John 5:6 When Jesus saw him lie, and knew that he had been now a long time in that case, he saith unto him, Wilt thou be made whole?

Wilt thou be made whole?  God’s name Jehovah-Rapha is promised healing but our accepting His healing is our choice.]

--TRUST GOD [instead of trying to figure it all out which is what I hear from many that I counsel.]

Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

Proverbs 3:6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Proverbs 3:7 Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.

--CANCEL THE DEBT---Matthew 18:21-35

Mat 18:21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?

Mat 18:22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.................

Mat 18:35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.

--Realize that it is a hardened Sclerotic (physically hardening) heart that will not let go.

[Psalms 95:8 Harden not your heart, as in the provocation, and as in the day of temptation in the wilderness:


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