Titus 2 Men And Women

Busy People
by Unknown Author

One day, an expert in time-management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget.

As he stood in front of the group of students, he said, "OK, time for a quiz." He then pulled out a one-gallon, wide-mouth mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one by one, into the jar.  When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, "Is this jar full?"

Everyone in the class said, "Yes."

Then he said, "Really?" He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar, causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks. He then asked the group once more, "Is this jar full?" By this time, the class was on to him.

"Probably not," one of them answered.

"Good," he replied, and he reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand into the jar and it went into all the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the question, "Is the jar full?"

"No!" the class shouted.

Once again, he said, "Good!" Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it until the jar was filled to the brim. Then the expert in time-management looked at the class and asked, "What is the point of this illustration?"

One eager beaver raised his hand and said, "The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard, you can always fit some more things into it."

"No," the speaker replied, "that is not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is this: If you don't put the big rocks in first, you'll never get them in at all. What are the big rocks in your life? Your children, your spouse, your loved ones, your friendships, your education, your dreams, a worthy cause, teaching or mentoring others, doing things that you love, time for yourself, your health."

"Remember to put these big rocks in FIRST, or you'll never get them in at all. If you sweat the little stuff (gravel, sand), then you'll fill your life with little things to worry about that don't really matter, and you'll never have the real quality time you need to spend on the important stuff (big rocks). So tonight, or in the morning, when you reflect on this short story, ask yourself this question: 'What are the big rocks in my life?' Then put those in your jar first."

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