Titus 2 Men And Women

Greetings!

We, the staff of New Hope Outreach, want to take this opportunity to wish you a blessed Easter season. We also want to thank you for signing up to receive our devotions.

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And please may we all remember that we can make a difference to STOP child abuse!

April is Child Abuse Prevention month

While the teal and royal blue ribbons will be a reminder to all of us in April--a reminder of children who have been, or are being, damaged or murdered--many people will feel helpless to make a difference in this growing evil in our society. 

New Hope Outreach believes education for the awareness and prevention of child abuse is ‘THE’main component of making a real change for the safety of children. We have researched countless materials looking for one resource that provides concise valuable information and we are pleased to recommend a valuable free booklet to you: 7 Steps to Protecting Our Children

You can go to www.darkness2light.org and download this pdf booklet for free. You may also want to consider ordering some in print to give to your family and friends. They are very reasonably priced.

We ask you to consider sending this web site and reference to the pdf booklet to your family and friends: www.darkness2light.org Together we can make a difference to STOP child abuse!

Child Abuse Prevention Starts at Home

[The Bible is not silent concerning child safety and child abuse.  We may tend to think of the following verses only in light of Bible doctrine but, especially in the day we live in, we should expand this admonition to include child safety.

Deuteronomy 11:18-19 "Therefore shall ye lay up these my words in your heart and in your soul, and bind them for a sign upon your hand, that they may be as frontlets between your eyes. And ye shall teach them your children, speaking of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, when thou liest down, and when thou risest up."] 

Experts estimate that one in four girls and one in six boys are sexually abused before their 18th birthdays. 67 percent of all reported sexual assaults happen to children age 17 and under. Despite these alarming statistics, there are steps you as a parent can take to keep your children safe.

"My husband and I thought our children could never fall prey to a pedophile so we never taught them abuse prevention strategies. One day tragedy struck....a trusted friend of the family....a pastor....and our child became a statistic. We lived through a grievous nightmare and we beg you to realize every child is at risk and no family is exempt." –director of New Hope Outreach

To find the best prevention information the New Hope Outreach staff has, over the last three years, read, gleaned and listened to the personal accounts of victims to compile concise information for child-safety and child abuse awareness and prevention workshops. The following book presents needed information for parents in a concise and easy to read format. Please...please...read this book and make it part of training your children: 
Child Safety 101 Benny Mares : An essential parenting guidebook written by retired LAPD officer and former international bodyguard. The author, Benny Mares, gives parents 101+ safety tips for protecting a child from dangerous situations and from those who seek to abduct and molest children. www.Childsafety101.com

The following web sites also provide very good resources for parents: 
www.darkness2light.org Read: Seven Steps to Protecting Our Children:
www.parentsformeganslaw.com
www.Titus2MenAndWomen.org Section: Child Abuse...It Happens
preventchildabuseny.org Child Abuse Prevention Begins at Home

Parents and Care-Givers

If you feel uncomfortable with an adult's behavior around children, trust your instincts. Learn as much as you can about problem behavior.

Don't be fooled  into thinking all child molesters are strangers, dirty old men, homosexuals, mentally disabled, or addicted to drugs or alcohol.

The greatest risk comes from friends and family, not strangers. 93 percent of victims know their abusers: 34 percent are abused by family members; 59 percent are abused by someone trusted by the family.

Tips for Protecting Your Children

• Abusers often try to earn the trust of potential victims and their families. This enables them to more easily gain time alone with the children. Abusers are drawn to settings where they can easily gain access to children: schools, sports leagues, clubs, etc.
• More than 80 percent of sexual abuse cases happen in one-adult/one-child situations. Think carefully before leaving your child alone with one adult. If possible, seek out group situations instead. If you can’t avoid leaving your child in one-adult/one-child situations, drop in unexpectedly.
• Monitor your children’s Internet use. Abusers may use the Internet as a tool to interact privately with children, with the ultimate goal of luring children into physical contact.
  
  Open, Honest Communication May Be The Best Prevention Tip.
• Always talk to your children about their daily activities. Show interest in their feelings. Encourage them to share their concerns and problems with you. 
• Age-appropriate: Teach your children about the body and all of the bodily functions. Teach them words that will help them feel comfortable discussing their bodies with you.
• Explain that no one has the right to touch them in a way that makes them uncomfortable, including adults whom they know and trust. Roll play with them using "what if? Questions."
• Teach your children that it’s your job to protect them, and that you can protect them only if they tell you when something is wrong. Explain that people who hurt children may tell the children to keep it a secret. They may tell the children their parents will not believe them. They might threaten to hurt the parents if the child shares the secret. Teach your children that adults who say that are wrong, and that your children can share anything with you.
• Make sure your children understand that if someone does make them feel uncomfortable or confused, you will not blame them. Reassure your children that sexual abuse is never the fault of the children.

Children Who Have Been Abused Often Keep it a Secret.
The more you know about why children keep it a secret and how they communicate when they do try to tell, the easier it will be for you to break down barriers to communication.

Understand Why Children Keep it a Secret:

• They are afraid of upsetting or disappointing their parents. 
• They may be too embarrassed to tell their parents.
• The abuser may threaten to hurt the child or the child’s family.
• Children who do not disclose after the first encounter may be afraid or ashamed to tell when it happens again.
• Young children may not understand there is something to tell. They are taught to respect and obey adults, and many abusers tell children the abuse is "OK" or a "game."

Understand How Children Communicate:

• Children may communicate in a roundabout way by saying something such as, "I don’t like to be alone with Mr. Jones." They may tell parts of what happened or pretend it happened to someone else to test an adult’s reaction.
• Children who do disclose abuse may tell an adult other than a parent.
• "If adults respond emotionally or negatively to a disclosure, children will stop talking."
  --Prevent Child Abuse New York

Physical and Behavioral Signs of Abuse:

Children who are too frightened to talk about sexual molestation may exhibit a variety of physical and
behavioral signals. Parents are responsible for noticing symptoms of abuse. Any of these signs are significant: 

1. Changes in behavior such as withdrawal, fearfulness, crying without provocation.
2. Appetite disturbances.
3. Fear of a person or an intense dislike at being left somewhere or with someone.
4. Recurrent nightmares, disturbed sleep patterns or fear of the dark.
5. Returning to more infantile behavior such as bedwetting, thumb sucking or excessive crying.
6. Torn or stained underclothing.
7. Vaginal or rectal bleeding, pain, itching, swollen genitals, vaginal discharge.
8. Unusual interest in or knowledge of sexual matters, expressing affection in ways inappropriate for a child of that age.
9. Fear of a person or an intense dislike at being left somewhere or with someone.
10. Other behavioral signals such as aggressive or disruptive behavior, running away, failing in school or delinquent behavior.

You Think Your Child Has Been Abused:  Call the police and file a report. Remember that taking action is important because other children will continue to be at risk if a pedophile is not stopped! Child sexual abuse is a personal and a community concern please check and see if a pedophile is living in your neighborhood: www.familywatchdog.us 
or check your Sheriff’s Department or State Police Department web site.

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